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The Prove It Game

The public opinions on Meghan Markle, or Meghan, Duchess of Sussex, are divided. Some love her and most seem to hate her. I admire her in some ways. I just watched an interview she did with podcast host Jamie Kern Lima and something she said resonated with me. 

Image from Jamie Kern Lima YouTube. 



Here it is:

"We spend so much of our lives trying to prove something. You have to prove that you're enough, you have to prove that you're pretty enough, you have to prove that you're smart enough, you have to prove that you're a good wife or a good friend, and I am just so done with the prove it game. When you get to the place where you feel like I don't have to prove anything to you anymore. I don't have to prove that I'm a good person, I don't have to prove that I'm a good wife or mum or friend, I don't have to prove that I work hard. It can be really freeing when you stop playing the prove it game." - Meghan Markle.

I completely agree with that. We're constantly trying to prove something - to family, to friends, to managers, to so many people - and it can be exhausting. The people who get to know you and really matter will see what an amazing person you are, the great skills and talents you have and just love you, flaws and all. 


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